Just because you’re not crying doesn’t mean you’re not sad. Just because you’re smiling, doesn’t mean you’re happy.l

“The way sadness works is one of the strange riddles of the world. If you are stricken with a great sadness, you may feel as if you have been set aflame, not only because of the enormous pain but also because your sadness may spread over your life, like smoke from an enormous fire.– Lemony Snicket

“Crying is a one way that mouth can’t speak….”

Everybody have their own embarrassment in their life, even though I, but… I don’t let my eyes get wet and I don’t want anyone to see me weak neither hurt….Sometimes you need to do that… to be strong even you are suffocating and broken…….Let them see you strong…even it’s painful…

I had accepted long ago what was going to happen, so I was already in the process of trying to heal from our loss and broken..but then again another sad stories came….I wonder how can I hide my tears, how can i not speak my loneliness and hide my emotions “It’s hard, really hard”.. it is just like i was happy yesterday and sad today.. it’s difficult..”my heart still crying…and i can’t stop it…..

I deal with grief in a private way. I don’t do big expressions of emotion. However, there is nothing wrong with that. Don’t expect me to be the same way you are when it comes to sadness and emotions in general. I do it in my own way that no one seen and know... Stop telling me I’m hard-hearted or unfeeling. It’s untrue and simply unkind.

That doesn’t just go for me, obviously. I have other friends who have expressed something similar, and I know exactly what they’re going through. Rather to hide and don’t express it… it hard for you to face but it’s very hard for them to see you in pain…

People are all different. We feel and express in different ways. That’s not bad, but instead is what makes us unique. The way we love is entirely unique to that person in question.

People are beautiful just the way they are. Stop trying to make them something that they’re not. If I don’t cry when you do, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with me or anyone else who doesn’t cry when people think they’re supposed to. It is because we hide it and want to be alone to sufferIt’s selfish but that is me..

Mostly though, stop the judgement. Just let people be people. That’s what they really need anyway — not to be what society wants them to be, but be who they want to be.

Just because you’re not crying doesn’t mean you’re not sad. Just because you’re smiling, doesn’t mean you’re happy.

-Radio Romance

Thank You for the unconditional love Mahal.

Thank You for the moments and happiness we share…

Thank You for the showing your earnest love without hesitation…

Thank you and will always love you Mahal…

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